Showing posts with label Author Barbara Becker Holstein. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Author Barbara Becker Holstein. Show all posts

Friday, December 17, 2010

Blog Tour: Book Review & Giveaway - Secrets: You Tell Me Yours and I'll Tell You Mine... Maybe by Barbara Becker Holstein

Secrets: You Tell Me Yours and I'll Tell You Mine... Maybe by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein:

Following on the heels of the best-selling book The Truth (I’m a girl, I’m smart and I know everything), SECRETS: You Tell Me Yours and I’ll Tell You Mine…maybe! is the continuing diary of a girl moving into her teen-age years. The Girl has plenty to fill her journal.


The pages reveal a new school, a new baby in the family, new friends, a new guy and a new set of issues to face. Enter the secret world of an almost-teen as she learns which secrets to share and which to keep to herself

Book Review:
This book picks up where The Truth left off.  I could relate to the girl writing in this diary.  Perhaps now that she is a couple years older I can remember better the things she's going through.  From concerns over boys to her weight to starting her period this diary shares the feelings, concerns, worries and thoughts of a 13 year old girl.

There are a couple of things in this book that seem a little old for my 10 year old daughter.  The first book The Truth was written from the perspective of a ten year old and I've given that book to my daughter.  I would wait another year or two before sharing this one with her.

These books would be a great tool for opening up discussions with your daughter.
Read an Excerpt From Secrets:
I can’t believe it. Today we moved and I feel like I am in a dream. I just keep walking around our new house and wondering when we will go home. It feels so different and strange. The floors are all bare wood. Everything is on one floor. It is called a ranch house, I don’t know why. My mother said our rugs would look terrible here so she let the people who bought our house keep them. I think she was right. They are a dark maroon and the walls are a light cream in this house. I don’t think that would look good.

I went to the bathroom three times since we got here and every time I used a different bathroom. I can’t believe it. Three different toilets in the same house! Only my friend Susan, my rich friend, has more than two bathrooms. And now we do. I keep measuring the living room. Would you believe it is 27 feet by 15 feet? I used my own feet and added a few inches each time I took a step.

When I look out of the windows I expect to see the shrubs to my left and the Hudson house and I don’t. Instead I see a big open field that will probably have houses on it by next year. That’s what my father said. And when I look out to the right I expect to see our clothesline and the Dixson’s driveway. Instead I see rose bushes and a wooden bench under a tree that the last owners said we could have.

We had to eat supper off of paper plates and use wooden throw-away forks, knives and spoons because our boxes are still packed. My aunt made us a big picnic hamper of food and that’s what we ate for supper.

My brother already started to play with a kid next door who is about a year older than he is. He is so lucky. I have no one yet and that’s the truth.

About the Author:
Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein, nationally know Positive Psychologist, is the creator of The Enchanted Self,® a systematic way of helping to bring more joy, meaning, and purpose into our lives.


Dr. Holstein has been a school psychologist for more than 25 years. She has taught elementary school children and was an assistant professor in education in at Boston University.

She has been in private practice as a psychologist with her husband, Dr. Russell M. Holstein, in Long Branch, New Jersey, for over 25 years.

Contact Dr. Holstein on the web at http://www.enchantedself.com/ and http://www.thetruthforgirls.com/.  Find her book on Amazon.com.

Giveaway Details:
Thanks to Pump Up Your Book and Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein I have a copy of Secrets to giveaway.  Open to followers of this blog with a US mailing address. Last day to enter is January 5th.
To enter fill out this form:

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Blog Tour: Book Review & Giveaway - The Truth (I'm a Girl, I'm Smart and I Know Everything) by Barbara Becker Holstein

The Truth (I'm a girl, I'm smart, and I know everything) by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

THE TRUTH is a delightful, humorous secret diary, written by a girl who is 11-12 years of age. She is wise and yet innocent. Her words acknowledge those priceless truths that we all knew as kids. She makes us cry and laugh and see ourselves. Everybody loves reading her thoughts, secrets, adventures and solutions to difficult problems. Girls are naturally curious and this book gives them a real opportunity to see how a girl like themselves in so many ways handles her toughest problems and most personal thoughts. Mom can read the book along with her daughter and not only be brought back to herself as a youngster, but find on every page relevant topics for discussion with her daughter. How do you handle a bully? How do you handle a crush on a boy? What about teasing? How do you find time to listen to your daughter? Do we have enough fun together? What really matters?


There is space right within the book for the girl and or mom to make notes or her own diary entries. The book ends with discussion ideas that can also open up whole new areas of topics for mom and daughter or the young reader and other members of her family, friends, or teachers.


Behind this very easy read, written by a positive psychologist with over 25 years of clinical experience, is the psychological message to the girls reading THE TRUTH that they can and must keep the fire and passion of their girlhoods as they grow up and have the courage to carry the most precious parts of themselves into adulthood.. For parents the book is a way back to what made them feel most special at 10, 11 or 12. Once parents are back in the place where their kids live, then listening, trust and real sharing can begin. Every girl and ever parent wants this kind of TRUTH.

The Truth on Amazon.com
http://www.thetruthforgirls.com/
http://www.enchantedself.com/
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Review:
This book is written as the diary of a ten year old girl. Having a ten year old daughter I found what was written to be interesting.  I think I've forgotten much of what it was like to be young and insecure.  Many of the "truths", thoughts and feelings that were shared by the diary writer were things I've heard my own daughter express.  Then there were other things (such as the girl still playing with her dolls) that didn't relate to my daughter as much.

Reading this book made me realize I really need to take more time to talk with my daughter about her fears, worries, hopes and dreams.  I don't listen like I should and there are subjects I need to take the time to discuss with her.  This book was worth reading simply for the ideas for discussions I got from it.

If you've got a daughter ages 9-13, I would recommend this book to you and your daughter.

Book Giveaway:
Thanks to Pump up Your Books & Barbara Becker Holstein I have a copy of The Truth to giveaway.  Open to US only.  Ends 1/5/10. To enter please follow and fill out the form:

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