This question comes from Liz @ Fictional Candy
How do you say "no" to an author, publisher, editor whose book you don't want to read? Or even harder, after you've started reading and realized you aren't going to want to continue, or can not give them a positive review?Saying "no":
When I first started getting requests to review books I accepted all of them and read all of them even if it was a book I would not normally choose to read. I was thrilled just to be asked to review their book and found some wonderful new books & authors.
Unfortunately it didn't take long before I could no longer keep up this practice because I had too many requests.
I wish I could still say yes to every request but I don't want to waste an author's money by having them send me a book I don't have time to read and review. I've become very selective in the books I accept. Unless it is a book I am planning to read I usually reply that I am currently at least 6 months out on reviews and not accepting anything new at this time. There are a lot of books I would love to read that look appealing but I can only read so many books each year. So more often than not I have to turn down a request for a book I would like to read.
I do want authors to know that it doesn't hurt to ask! Currently I usually only accept books from authors and publishers I have worked with in the past but once in a while a book jumps out at me and I agree to review it.
I maintain a spreadsheet of readers who are accepting books to review. (See Post HERE). Whether I accept a book or not I include a link to that spreadsheet so they can find other reviewers who might be a good fit for their book.
If it looks like I book my readers might enjoy I include information about having the book featured on my site by doing an interview & giveaway.
Negative Reviews
I rarely write a negative review. If I can't get through a book I usually stop reading so a review never gets written. This hasn't happened very often but when it does I just email the author and say this book wasn't for me so I am not going to review it.
Here is a couple of examples of email I've sent:
Thank you for asking me to review your book. Unfortunately I didn't love the book so I'm going to hold off on reviewing it for now. I'm sure there is an audience who will enjoy your book but it just wasn't for me. If you would still like a review posted I will go ahead write one.You can add more details if you would like but try to be as kind as possible. Authors put their heart and soul into their work and even though they try to have "thick skin" negative reviews hurt.
OR
Thank you for asking me to review your book. Unfortunately this book just wasn't for me and I was unable to finish it.
So what do you do if you have to post a review of a book you didn't love?
Try to find something positive about it. I don't claim to be the expert at doing this. I'd much rather skip a review all together but there are times I've had to post a review because I agreed to do so for an ARC tour or Blog Tour.
Here are a few example of reviews I wrote on books I didn't love or couldn't finish.
Compulsion
Slayed
My Journey
I hope that helps a little.
Please leave a comment if you have any ideas on how to say no or what you do when you have to write a review for a book you didn't like.
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Thanks for posting this! I recently had to write a review for a blog tour on a book I really did not enjoy (it was cliched and formulaic and honestly, a direct Twilight rip-off). I was as kind as possible, pointing out the good things, but also making note of things I thought could be improved upon. I then included a link to the book on Goodreads, pointing out that there were other reviewers who disagreed with me. I also have a disclaimer on my blog stating that my reviews are MY opinion which may vary from others.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, great post! Thanks again!
Amie@Mom Reads My Books
What a great question! I agree with the answer you gave ... I think it applies to many book bloggers out there. Even if a book is downright horrible, there's usually something good about it. However, I have read some that I absolutely couldn't finish. In the case of blog tours, it's often advisable to let the blog host know. I had to do that once and she was very receptive and understanding. She suggested I forgo the review and my name was removed from the list for that particular book. Since then, I've done many reviews for that publicity agencies blog tours and all have gone well. If a book is sent to me from a publishing company, I just simply don't review those I don't enjoy. As for authors, I'm very particular about which books I agree to review.
ReplyDeleteThis was one of the most interesting and inspiring posts I have read for a while. Thanks for sharing your reflections.
ReplyDeleteGreat answer to what can be a uncomfortable issue for many bloggers who receive books from publishers and authors for review.
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Truly Bookish
This post had good timing for me --- I was sent a book to review that sounded good, but it just didn't resonate with me. I think I've written a fair and balanced review, but now I need to figure out a way to tell the person who sent it to me.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could love every book I read, but sometimes, it just doesn't quite happen. :)
great idea!
ReplyDeleteTwo great topics. I find it tough to say no. Especially when sometimes responding can lead to a negative email even when you've been totally professional. And of course even for books that you might be interested in reading there just isn't enough time in a day.
ReplyDeleteFor negative reviews, which I don't write too many either - if I can't finish a book I don't review it - I prefer to simply, without snark, state what did and didn't appeal to me. Some things that didn't work for me might work for someone else. If it's a matter of writing style, that too is subjective, so I just state my opinion about how I felt about it.
I still haven't had a one star like the review you mentioned above. But typically ones I find that displeasing I just won't read. Fortunately with a Kindle I'm never stuck without a large selection of books no matter where I go.
Thanks for the great advice.
This was my question, and at last minute I got nervous and didn't sign my name. I have no idea why!
ReplyDeleteBut as a new blogger, I am so happy to see that this is a fairly common occurance. Thank you so much for your answer, it was very helpful!
Liz- Thanks for claiming the question :) I added you as the one who asked and linked to your blog.
ReplyDeleteKathy
I've learned a lot. At this point I wouldn't keep reading a book I wasn't enjoying and would just email the tour host saying it wasn't working for me... but last year I didn't really know that was an option and felt obligated to read it.
ReplyDeleteI've read some really mean reviews and it makes me sad, I can't imagine how that feels to the author.
I'm totally in the camp of trying to find something positive even if a book isn't for you.
Great question and I like the answer.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the added link, very nice of you!
ReplyDeleteI'm one of those determined to finish a book even if I dn't like it readers. There is a VERY small handful of books I started and never finished. I saw - sometimes you have to have to write those negative reviews - Even if it is just to say - "these are the reasons I stopped reading it" or I pushed through etc
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